I spoke with New York City relationship specialist Gregory Kushnickand Doctor of Psychology and licensed clinical social worker Danielle Forshee about what to do if your friend hooks up with your ex. Recently, he came up to visit and we unexpectedly hooked up Thirdly, yet without intending to come across as territorial in a caveman-defecating-on-his-patch-of-land sort of way, that person was with you and was part of your life. In fact, "the pain of past relationships often persists for longer than many people admit to," Limongello says. You wrote of your crush in past tense, but you put it in all caps. Are you looking to put them down and make them feel bad?
Two days later, my girlfriend told me that the two of them are still talking and that she still has feelings for him.
It’s never OK to date your friend’s ex – and this is why
Don't have an account? Reader Favorites. I also recently ended a relationship, and a few nights ago, my guy friend came over from the aforementioned couple to hang out. Was That Wrong? In that case, go for it! When I contacted Kirk to say, "Hey, thanks for being so cool with this," he blew up at me, demanding to know why I thought he'd be OK with it.